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Beach

In 1974, I said goodbye to the beach and the Chesapeake Bay. The move to Texas put me 1,200 miles away from it. However, during my childhood, the beach was a wonderful place to wade along the shore, cast a fishing line, beach comb, swim, or sunbathe.

It’s surprising what drifts ashore on a beach, especially after a storm. I spent many days picking up rocks, sea glass, shells and driftwood. Fishing from the beach was as simple as peeling a softshell clam and putting it on a hook. Mullet, Sea Bass, Croaker—you name it. We reeled in all kinds of fish and eels from the Chesapeake.

In my early teens, the beach was a refuge. The ebb and flow of the waves often cleared my mind from a grueling day at middle school.

Twenty-three years later, in 1997, I returned to my familiar beach. Surprisingly, huge rocks and boulders filled the shoreline—Maryland’s attempt to deter soil erosion. The beach I knew had changed, yet it still held many memories.

Today, there are only a few designated places to access the beach. Whenever I visit the Eastern Shore, I drive into one of these areas, park the car, take off my shoes and meander to the beachfront. Feeling the sand underneath my feet and the cool bay waters lapping at my ankles take me back to a carefree time. I inhale the familiar salty scent and savor the moment—surrounded by the Chesapeake.

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Bridges

While scanning blueprints for their new home, Mom and Dad requested a big bay window. They got their wish. Their living room bay window framed a picturesque view of the Chesapeake Bay and the four-mile Chesapeake Bay Bridge. We kept our binoculars and telescope handy, as there was always something interesting to see from that window. We observed waterfowl, read the names of ships as they passed by, and once in a while we’d zoom in on a submarine’s periscope.

Sadly, on occasion, we’d get word that someone had jumped off the bridge. Whenever the report came around, Mom wouldn’t allow me to go to the beach for fear I might come across a dead body. When news spread that authorities had recovered a body, I could once again resume my kid adventures of beach combing and seashell collecting.

One particular suicide attempt made headlines. A Maryland State Trooper spotted a woman standing against the railing—staring into the Chesapeake Bay two hundred feet below. He stopped, grabbed one of her arms and hung on to her as she dangled above the choppy bay waters. Soon, others rushed to help and pulled her over the rail to safety. The next day, the headlines read, Officer Saves Woman from Fateful Jump.

We never know what others are going through. A smile. A conversation. A phone call. An encounter with an acquaintance or maybe someone we never met before.

Be kind and merciful. Let no one ever come to you without going away better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness. Mother Teresa

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